Wednesday, June 25, 2008

hmmm.. finally got something to blog about.

earlier on, read about a post regarding friendship. and it makes me think about the people, friends around me.. friendships is hard to handle and can be as fragile as a glass. if u don't handle it with care, it can break and all u get is the broken pieces.. i know its a weird way of describing friendship but i can't think of any other thing to describe. heh..

hmmm.. as people get to know one another, spend time with one another, as time past, friendship is bulit. but if you do not contact, talk to each other for some time, the friendship will no longer be the same. will become further, drift away from one another. its sounds like a relationship but it really is! haha.. and i know that if 2 or 3 is together, the friendship is easy to handle. not that there won't be any quarrels. but its easier than a group of 8, 9 or 10 rite? more people means you need to accomodate more people. giving in and to care for more people, know more about their lives.. every person play a part in someone's life. it may not be important to you but it can be a small action that touch that person's heart.

why do people have best friends? cause they make an effort to go out with friend, take time out to care for them. like listening to troubles, be there at the lowest point.. all this result to strong friendships. =) if there's any miscommunication or unhappiness, thrash it out! words may be hurting and straight forward, but you can know how your friend feel. its better than keeping it all to yourself.. yeah.. share your problems. encourage one another, tell what is wrong and what is right.. try to be there for your friend eventhough he/she say its ok. he/she may not want you to see their weakest side.. tell them its ok. when your're there, he/she can sense the care and concern.. true friends sees the weakest part of you too! there's always up and down in friendship.

i'm so glad that i know my group of Bball friends. now there's 9 of us plus jun.. although everyone is not very close but we always try to meet once a month. meet up for every birthdays.. and when one of us meet with any prob, we try to solve it, try to talk it out.. it might not involve all but we will share within one another and help one another.

everyone of us in this group plays a part in this friendship so lets keep it going.. i know its a busy year for everyone but don't nglect your friend! =p i know that i'm not your very best friend but at least i'm one of your friend in life.. i won't know what your every problems are.. but if you just share little with me, i'll be happy, i can't be a good adviser but if you need a listener, i can try to be there.. if i'm not free, i'm sorry! but you can drop me a message and i'll contact you back..

its a long post.. shall end here for today.

i thank God for my bball friends: ana,su,jia,sock,annie,nan,emi,jun
-->friends, jiayou for your year. looking forward to our holiday =)
remember not to give up.. bitter follow by sweetness in the future

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

finally get to blog after busy week.. no time to come online for last 2 weeks.

attended 2 wake last week. one was a leader's grandma frm my church. stay till ard 2 then back home wit char. another one was my fren, jia's grandma.. the last day of the wake make me remind of my grand ma.. cos the song 'shi shang zhi you ma ma hao' was played. sock and i teared.. just nice jia's grandma cremation place was the same as my grandma. and i can go visit my grandma at the same time. so miss my grandma.. although she nag at us but she look aft us since we were young. but ya, no matter what, everyone will leave the world when we're old. even if we grieve, there's a time to stop. if not, we wun move on..

i wouldn't wan it to happen agn. its so hard to move on.. been attending at least a wake every year since ah ma's death. but 2nd cremation tt i go other than ah ma de.. its so sad to see ur love one leaving.. u wun know when they're leaving so show ur care and love towards them so u wun regret. its something tt cannot be prevented so its gud tt u can be more fillial and not do anything tt will upset them. =)

the overnight at wake make me bond more wit jia's siblings. din know they're so funny. but ya they are nice ppl. her family too.. her aunt even rem me and ask whether i had eaten and stuff.. got chance ar.. haha.. rite Su? lolx.. reali scare me can. haha..

hmmm.. shall end here. blog more when i haf things to share.. take care ah, ah jia. its a hard time for you but we believe u can.. u nid time. =)

Friday, June 6, 2008

had a great week. LOUD camp.. our house is the alphabat 'U'-name Ukida.. i din go for the first which is on mon cos nid go back office. went for the nite session and its great. abt our 5 spiritual senses. we got activity aft 12. go a few stations and to haf a sharin session.. get to know each other better.

2nd day was games lik captain's ball, food war, and build tent.. lolx. fun but tired. svc was better on 2nd nite.. got touch and tears filled many ppl's eyes. =)

3rd day is the last day. we got a activity lik treasure hunt to go ard semb to look for wat we are needed to find.. then telematch and our house won!! yeah.. aft telematch, we practise for our skit for our campfire on tt nite. cool! end ard 10 plus at nite then everyone was lik fighting for cab. slowly, the place is less crowded. but we(jun, annie, me) took bus to semb station then cab back to east. Wow.. haha..

was dead tired when i reach home.. bathe and go to bed. so now, im at home resting. charge my energy.. shall blog soon agn.