Wednesday, June 18, 2008

finally get to blog after busy week.. no time to come online for last 2 weeks.

attended 2 wake last week. one was a leader's grandma frm my church. stay till ard 2 then back home wit char. another one was my fren, jia's grandma.. the last day of the wake make me remind of my grand ma.. cos the song 'shi shang zhi you ma ma hao' was played. sock and i teared.. just nice jia's grandma cremation place was the same as my grandma. and i can go visit my grandma at the same time. so miss my grandma.. although she nag at us but she look aft us since we were young. but ya, no matter what, everyone will leave the world when we're old. even if we grieve, there's a time to stop. if not, we wun move on..

i wouldn't wan it to happen agn. its so hard to move on.. been attending at least a wake every year since ah ma's death. but 2nd cremation tt i go other than ah ma de.. its so sad to see ur love one leaving.. u wun know when they're leaving so show ur care and love towards them so u wun regret. its something tt cannot be prevented so its gud tt u can be more fillial and not do anything tt will upset them. =)

the overnight at wake make me bond more wit jia's siblings. din know they're so funny. but ya they are nice ppl. her family too.. her aunt even rem me and ask whether i had eaten and stuff.. got chance ar.. haha.. rite Su? lolx.. reali scare me can. haha..

hmmm.. shall end here. blog more when i haf things to share.. take care ah, ah jia. its a hard time for you but we believe u can.. u nid time. =)