Wednesday, June 25, 2008

hmmm.. finally got something to blog about.

earlier on, read about a post regarding friendship. and it makes me think about the people, friends around me.. friendships is hard to handle and can be as fragile as a glass. if u don't handle it with care, it can break and all u get is the broken pieces.. i know its a weird way of describing friendship but i can't think of any other thing to describe. heh..

hmmm.. as people get to know one another, spend time with one another, as time past, friendship is bulit. but if you do not contact, talk to each other for some time, the friendship will no longer be the same. will become further, drift away from one another. its sounds like a relationship but it really is! haha.. and i know that if 2 or 3 is together, the friendship is easy to handle. not that there won't be any quarrels. but its easier than a group of 8, 9 or 10 rite? more people means you need to accomodate more people. giving in and to care for more people, know more about their lives.. every person play a part in someone's life. it may not be important to you but it can be a small action that touch that person's heart.

why do people have best friends? cause they make an effort to go out with friend, take time out to care for them. like listening to troubles, be there at the lowest point.. all this result to strong friendships. =) if there's any miscommunication or unhappiness, thrash it out! words may be hurting and straight forward, but you can know how your friend feel. its better than keeping it all to yourself.. yeah.. share your problems. encourage one another, tell what is wrong and what is right.. try to be there for your friend eventhough he/she say its ok. he/she may not want you to see their weakest side.. tell them its ok. when your're there, he/she can sense the care and concern.. true friends sees the weakest part of you too! there's always up and down in friendship.

i'm so glad that i know my group of Bball friends. now there's 9 of us plus jun.. although everyone is not very close but we always try to meet once a month. meet up for every birthdays.. and when one of us meet with any prob, we try to solve it, try to talk it out.. it might not involve all but we will share within one another and help one another.

everyone of us in this group plays a part in this friendship so lets keep it going.. i know its a busy year for everyone but don't nglect your friend! =p i know that i'm not your very best friend but at least i'm one of your friend in life.. i won't know what your every problems are.. but if you just share little with me, i'll be happy, i can't be a good adviser but if you need a listener, i can try to be there.. if i'm not free, i'm sorry! but you can drop me a message and i'll contact you back..

its a long post.. shall end here for today.

i thank God for my bball friends: ana,su,jia,sock,annie,nan,emi,jun
-->friends, jiayou for your year. looking forward to our holiday =)
remember not to give up.. bitter follow by sweetness in the future